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10 Things you should never post or upload on social media

(1)ANYTHING THAT YOU MAY CHANGE YOUR MINDABOUT

Before you post ask yourself the following

questions:

Would I be willing to show these pictures on the

front page of vanguard newspaper?

Am I being too degrading?

What would my future or current employer think

about this post?

Do I currently owe money? (No better way to find a

person who has dipped out on their bills by seeing

their facebook status!).

Do I understand what “web cache” means?

Web cache

A folder full of Web pages in the user’s computer

that is maintained by the Web browser for a period

of time. If the local, cached page has not been

updated on the Web, it is retrieved immediately by

the browser, saving download time.

(2)INTIMATE DETAILS!

We know you want to show off your life but do us

all a favor and leave the following details OUT of

your posts:

Your sex life (OR PROBABLY LACK OF…)

When you are planning to have children

Personal sonograms

The overbearing make-out pictures

When your last menstrual cycle was?

How big or small “anything” is

Bowel movements…”Why do I have to keep

mentioning this one ?? Any guesses?”

Your ridiculously long store purchases…. ??

ALONG WITH THE fake PRICE??!

Anything that should remain underneath your

clothing….

Ummm….your relationship “intimate” details…

Many relationships fail because people do not

understand to keep certain things between TWO

people.

(3)FUNERAL PICTURES??!!!!

NEVER DO THE FOLLOWING!

Post pictures of the actual funeral

Post pictures of the currently deceased member on

the internet.

Ask yourself how are you honoring someone by

posting images of them in a coffin so the entire

world can view it.

Having an open casket funeral is fine for those who

agree with it. Sharing those intimate photos…ARE

NOT!

Would you rather someone post a picture of you as

the person you were, or in a coffin?

To honor you currently deceased loved one, find a

picture that reveals who they were when they were

alive. The last picture people see is the most

lasting impression.

DO IT TO HONOR THEM….

(4)YOUR CHILD’S PICTURE….WITH THEIR NAME

PLASTERED EVERYWHERE!!!

This is a child safety issue. Everyone is guilty of

wanting to show off their family members, but

doing this with your children is just NOT SAFE!

There are predators everywhere who will not only

know what your child looks like, but their name,

age, location and EVERYTHING YOU POST ABOUT

THEM!

Most predators are people you know or someone

you have seen before.

The average person has facebook friends they

never speak to, but they continue to post their

child’s entire life history…EVERYWHERE!

Just because you are posting pictures for your

only your facebook friend to see, does not mean

they have privacy settings similar to yours.

Children are very gullible. All it takes is for an

individual to come up to your child, call them by

name and gain their trust by telling them

EVERYTHING YOU POSTED!

FOR EXAMPLE:

“Hey, valentine!

Remember me? You are so cute! All grown up!

Wait…you don’t remember me, do you?

Well, I can never forget a pretty face like yours.

You mother Helen and I work together. She talks

about you all the time. I know you love fudge and

your favorite color is yellow! How about you jump

in my truck for a bit! Your mom says it’s okay,

She sent me here because she was going to be

running a bit late. Don’t Worry……..”

FOR CHILD SAFETY TIPS

Start personalizing who you send your child’s

picture to.

It is easier to track down who you have given your

pictures to, if you minimize.

Never post your child’s name, age, date of birth,

and where they attend school.

Talk to your kids about strangers….everybody is

NOT your friend and NOT their friend.

Put your child’s safety above your ego!

(5) CONTROVERSIAL

ISSUES…GAY,STRAIGHT,BLACK,WHITE,UGLY,FAT….

We live in Nigeria, so we should be able to say

whatever we want!!! Right??”

Wrong!!!!!

You are allowed to post and say whatever you

desire, but always remember that someone is

watching what you post.

There is an appropriate time and place for

everything; posting highly degrading material may

sabotage you in the long run. If you start posting

signs about how much you hate fat, ugly, stupid,

black, white, Asian…etc…there is a 100% chance

that those messages will fall in the wrong hands.

Vital relationships can be severed by posting

degrading material. We all come to the point in our

lives where we need help. There is no quicker way

to burn bridges than to post hate statements about

the characteristics of other people.

CONSTANT NEGATIVE STATEMENTS ONLY HURT

YOU!

(6)CONSTANTLY CHANGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP

STATUS!

DO NOT WORRY ABOUT HOW OTHER PEOPLE VIEW

YOU,

JUST REMEMBER….PERCEPTION IS REALITY

“I am not really sure if this is wrong, it just makes

you appear HIGHLY unstable, or a liar,

whatever comes first….”

“Do not allow what you consider good to be

spoken of as evil

(Romans 14:16).”

(7)UPDATING YOUR LOCATION EVERY SECOND

“Why does everyone need to know your every

bowel movement ??

REFER TO NUMBER 08

( WHEN YOU ARE GOING ON VACATION!

Everyone is excited when they go on a beautiful

vacation, however, I would always refrain letting all

of your Facebook friends know exactly when you

are going and returning.

People steal….mostly someone you know.

If you choose to brag about your whereabouts,

only tell a few during the time of the vacation.

AFTER you return, you can brag all day long!

PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY

(9)HEAVY USE OF PROFANITY!

Whether you like it or not, in this country there is a

reason why we call certain words “bad.”

Today, saying these words is no longer the

problem….writing them is!!!

Because these “potty” words have a bad stigma

attached to them, IT A BAD IDEA TO POST THESE

WORDS!!!!!

Bad language also includes using hate words,

slander or victimizing other people.

Why?

“Perception is reality. If you ever want a career or

a chance of respectable relationship…”

“Yes, you can say whatever you want, but

understand for every behaviour their are

consequences!!”

“If your purpose is too bad mouth someone else,

you are only bad mouthing yourself…keep it

clean!”

STOP WRITING DIRTY WORDS!!!!!

“Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps

himself out of trouble

(Proverbs 21:23).”

(10)PICTURES OF YOU PARTYING HARD, SMOKING

AND INDECENT DRESSING

Everyone wants to enjoy life. But in today’s

internet world, anything you post could last a

lifetime. Many people find these photos highly

entertaining and they are….until you realize they

will continue to resurface FOR THE REST OF YOUR

LIFE!

Your so-called friends are probably busy copy,

pasting those and sharing them with other people.

They are not laughing with you, they are laughing

AT YOU!

If you are using pictures like this for attention, this

is the wrong way to go!

Any associate who does this to you, IS NOT YOUR

FRIEND!

These photos are downloaded worldwide and posted on websites for the enjoyment of many people.

Try to take down as many obscene photos as possible and move on…

IF YOU SEE A FRIEND WITH CRAZY POSTS:

Do not laugh, this is not funny!

Do not share!

Encourage your friend to TAKE THE PICTURE

DOWN!

You are not being a true friend if you are

participating in permanently humiliating another

person.

What if someone did that to you?

And if you are using this as a revenge tactic…

What goes around comes around!”

Displaying another person’s humiliating moment

that could potentially destroy their career or

relationship, just makes you a weak person!

Revenge is never sweet and it will NOT make you

feel better in the end.

Strong people never do things to hurt another

person purposely and if they do…the never kick

someone who is already knocked down, they wait

until they are standing straight.10

About Prince Idowu Oyewumi

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